You're Fired!!!

I bet everyone sure remember this familiar word, which is very often heard in Donald Trump's famous reality show - "The Apprentice".

Now the new season haven't start yet, but Donald Trump already gave this word to his Executive Vice President, Carolyn Kepcher who mainly managed his Trump National Golf Club. Beside served as Trump's right hand, Carolyn also served as one of Trump's Apprentice advisor. Helping Trump by become his eyes and ears on all the candidates, Carolyn was very straightforward to the performance of all the candidates during the task.

Life is so unpredictable. But that's the life. Even a person had work closely with you for years, ut you can't expect people are always same Vision with you. If you do have the thought, It's still prove that you are a normal human with a little bit selfishness within your mind. Let us called is as partial-dictator, but it's not that serious than Hitler and you still not yet up to control freak level. But at here you almost had the mindset that wants everyone have the same vision as you.

I have a friend and she's almost similar to this situation. She's a person that straightforward on feeling and word, but her feeling will turn up side down when someone indirect or direct hurt it. But at here, we have to know one thing no matter we're work with colleague or hang around with friend, promise that you know the person well and know the group on how actually it is.

Let said you are eating dinner with a bunch of your friends, not best friends or newly known friends, but you do know how's the topic will flow around within the table.

Hey!!! Suddenly you notice someone is turning the ambience down when you guys was joking on some passed incident or thing and he/she is not saying a word until the dinner is done.

I bet everyone sure will meet with these types of people.

When you are with a group of people that very sarcasm on thing and topic, do prepare be part of it. Take it as humorous within friends.

That how's relationship is maintaining.

Yes!! You do have the right to feel moody when your feeling is being hurt. But hey, you're the one who choose to be part of it. If you know the thing actually will happen in this way, find a way to prevent it or be part of it.

You have to learn how to survive in this world. As early I said, you couldn't expect everyone is same vision with you, but you sure ask how this two situation can be related? Both situation here shown that you have another way to use. Not just forcing people to thinking same as you or showing up your angriness.

The best way is influences. Influence the people within your workgroup to have the same vision with you by refining both you and theirs vision. Influence others that how you actually is and where is your boarder line can reach by refining it every time.

Influence and refining, the best way for you to create a way too good communication towards everything.

And I bet you also will wish those who leave you also doing well in their career and life. Same as Donald Trump also wishing well to Carolyn.

:p